Can't reach the end.......

[Mekrina]

I am like sleepind in a bed of fire. I don't now wich actions to take, or where to go to. Im stuck in between two directions, and I feel like it can get quite HOT, but not the hot I would like, I mean, a dangerous unhealthy kind of HOT, hot like fire, not like pleasure

There's two guys that say they're in love with me. But I really like this one different guy who has nothing to do with them. These two guys don't know I love someone else and they come to me and argue about who's the best of them and ask me for my opinion but I just dont know. I can't fall in love just like that. Im in love with that other guy that I like and he knows it. Its so confusing. What should I tell everyone. I don't know how to handle, don't know what to do!!!! I can't go out with someone when I love someone else. And I cant go out with someone I love knowing that two other people love me. That would break their hearts. I really need your help!! What would you do ?

[Julo]

First off, let's not hide your own attraction for anyone else, although I don't know your age, I doubt you're older than 18, so these kids probably don't 'love' you.

Just do what makes you happy, they'll get over it, they're young

[Mekrina]

for one, don't hinder your own happiness for anyone else, although I don't know your age, I doubt you're older than 18, so these kids probably don't 'love' you.

Just do what makes you happy, they'll get over it. s. I really need ur guys help!! any advice?

Youre right, I just didnt want to hurt anyone else. I hate making someone else feel bad. And btw Im 14

[Bamboulator]

But then again, you have to be careful, because some people's hearts are so sensitive, that one little saying can make them emotionally damaged for over 6 months!

[Fredo]

agree with Sundered: if you are 14, and the guys around you are also that age, they don't know what "love" is yet. The meaning comes when you are around 17-18.

Furthermore, if you love someone, just try your luck with him. Don't be stressing about the two that are fighting for your attention if they don't interest you in the same way as they interest you.
Just let them down carefully. Don't spit in their face yelling "This Is Spartaaa!". Tell them you are flattered by their feelings, but that you just don't like them back.

[JujuRoyat]

lmfoa

[samy]

I would Just tell them straight to be honest..

[Thiball]

Also look at this way - Giving them any sense of hope, will make them believe they have a chance, in the long term, this will hurt them even more when you do tell them it's not happening, because their hope will grow further and further.

TLDR; Nip it in the bud in order to help them to the fullest you can.