View Full Version : Rumours are our enemy
The one thing I can't stand when I date a boy is the fact he's gonna brag about it to the whole class, and sometimes the whole school. I so totally want anonymity, I dream about a discrete relationship, something that runs smoothly, and just get to know my boyfriend and eventually love him. But that seems to be impossible, because boys are boys, and they want to look like men, even if we're just teenagers, they wanna say hey I'm your man, hey I'm a man, and to make sure everybody knows I'm a man, I'm gonna tell the whole town I'm dating Suzy, because she's the cutest teen in Tokyo, etc etc etc. Jesus what else should I expect from a guy ? What else silly ? What kind of crappy stuff is my boyfriend gonna do because he has no control of his pride and hormones ? Is he gonna hide a webcam in his bedroom when we make love and spread it over facebook ? Should I dump him right away or what ? Am i the only one to end up with crazy boys menwannabe guys or is there anyone out there to understand where I'm coming from ? thks
10-09-2011, 07:21 AM
lol that webcam paranoia is getting popular. well, i don't know what to say, men are just men, and will always be. I think their attitude will change when we all become adults though. We are just teenagers and it is normal for teens to brag, because psychoterapists say we are looking for our nature
10-10-2011, 12:20 PM
A friend of mine got webcammed while making love to her boyfriend. She was just happy their relationship was getting to the next level, and then next thing she knew the guy was making money by selling the video on the Internet . Last thing I heard she quit her school out of embarassment and started a therapy :eek:
rumors and gossips are kinda turning us crazy but as my dad says you gotta be stronger than the people starting them and never ever play their games. Once you've bitten in that gossip game, when you hear people repeating your words, it's too late, the devil is changing you already, because you've liked it, you enjoyed hearing your words going all around the school and hurting those who tried to spoil your reputation. Be carefull, you're already addicted and now you're a slave to vengeance. It's so many wasted time and energy. I know that from my dad. He says he was always capable to ignore that kind of nasty games and i believe him and i think it's the right thing to do.