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Carnivore
04-02-2012, 09:52 AM
I've seen doctors and they all tell me I gotta stop drugs and that's what I'm trying to do but it's so hard man, it's so hard. Only adults can stop doing drugs because they did not start as a teen and I've started too soon and now my life is screwed up yeah it's screwed up. Everytime I've tried to stop drugs I can resist temptation for one week and then it's calling me man, it's fucking calling me like a voice in my head how can I resist? It's like a force, it's like I feel my mind is sleeping when I don't have it how can I go through life without it and why trying to stop my doctor says drugs are the reasons why I have these terrible headaches and if I don't stop I'm heading to a permanent migraines symptom and I won't be able to do anything all do for the rest of my life and he says we are in America kid, you won't get no social security over your problem, the state ain't gonna give you money for you to survive just because you have this handicap so you're gonna end up begging in the streets and even begging won't be possible because there's no way you can sit down in the street the whole day because your head will hurt so bad if you keep doing drugs so he tells me to stop and I think he's right but I can't something's missing from my life but I don't know what. A girlfriend maybe I should try to call my ex back and tell her I really want to get sober and clean and shit but she won't forgive me I think. You know Ceresa was a really nice girl but I did not realize how lucky I was to have a nice girl like that with me and drugs were giving me more pleasure than be with her so I spent more time looking for my dealer and buy and put it in the syringue in straight in my veins and she thought there's nothing I can do for that boy and she left me and I understand it because I really was so freaking lost in my head and I tried to tell her look I'm so young you gotta forgive me and you gotta give me another chance but there was no way she would listen to me especially since I called her mother a bitch. Yeah because her mother tried to talk to me you know. This one saturday I went to my girlfriend house and I was gonna take her to the movie and her mother took me in another room and told me yeah boy, I know you have a problem with drugs and you gotta stop it because you are ruinning your health and your future and it's not just your life you are spoiling away but also my daughter life because she's constantly worried about you and then you stop for a week and I see her very happy and she's smiling and all and I'm so glad my daughter is happy again and all the sudden I see her coming back from school with this tinge of sadness on her face and when I ask her what's wrong my darling she tells me my boyfriends has fallen for drugs again and he has puked all over himself and he's going to be like a worm for a whole day again and I can't stand it anymore and I think I'm gonna leave him and mom I'm sorry to do that because I really loved him I really do but he's not trying to help himself and I have been trying to support him for a year and all i get in return are insults and I have to help him take a bath because he's so dirty and he can't take care of himself when he's so druged up and life as a couple can't be like that no it can't be like that mom please help me would I be a bad girl if I leave him ? And then her mom tells me if you don't try to help yourself I'm gonna tell my daughter to leave you and then I snapped and I said to her mom you're a fucking bitch ! and I left and now I came to this forum and I thought I could ask for advice because it seems like you can de that here and please tell me what to do because I love my girlfriend and I don't want to loose her

Musy
04-09-2012, 05:43 PM
Hi CArnivore. I'm sorry nobody answered you before. You look like you're hurting real bad. So have you got better since last time ? You know I don't think drugs are gonna spoil your life forever because you're just a teen anyway and it's the right time in your life to make mistakes and it's a lot easier to beat drugs at your age. If you did that for your thirties then yeah it would suck major balls and I would say you're in trouble but today it's ok, you have a lot of energy and it's a lot easier for you to start play sports and do physical practice so you beat it for good. You don't have to worry but get yourself some professional help and also try to be careful who you hang with. You know the thing with drugs is sometimes people do them just to get along and makes it easier because you can say any kind of crap to a drugged person he's gonna find it good so it makes you feel like you have many friends as you actually don't have friends, all you have is junky buddies. And sometimes it's like you go with new people you just met and they take you to a party and it feels good because you think yeaaaah doors are opening for me and I'm gonna have a good time with them and I hope we stay friends but then they start bring drugs at the party and they make you feel like you're not cool if you don't sniff and that's tricky because you really want to see them again but on the other hand you want to beat your addiction so you d'ont know what to do and finally you have a sniff and that's it, you have failed and drugs have won and you're high again :(

I'm sorry man, I'm sorry for you I know how bad it is. I never did drugs but my sister did them and it took me a huge effort to get her out of it and I had to follow her everyday and make sure she does'nt hang with assholes trying to make her even more addicted than she already was and make sure she goes to the gym and that's how I could know she really was getting out of it because I couldn't trust her and hearing her telling me I'm off drugs mysy honest I swear to god I'm off drugs you're my sister and would I lie to my sister you know I would never lie to you and I love you and would I lie to a person I love you know that's crazy Musy I'm off drugs yeah yeah I've beaten the addiction and I was like yeeeeaaah sure sister that's why your eyes are all red and you sweat and you shake and you stutter yeah you look very healthy sister, come one don't bullshit me anymore you're so freaking stone and you know it and you're 15 years old and it's time for you to be serious in school and you're lucky I'm here cause I know what to do to kick drugs and you'll hate me at first but when you'll be an adult you'll understand. And you know man I know it's calling you because drugs are just the fruit of the devil and it's deep inside you and that's why you feel like shit but you can beat it because you're just a teenager and you have plenty energy to spend on your detox so don't worry my friend you can PM me anytime you want I'll allways be around for you you know and everybody in this forum will help you.

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